GS: The Monthlys

Good Morning,

How’s everybody feeling? Now that Christmas and Boxing Day is over, I’m sure the focus is New Years. Let me know your New Years Plans, we could potentially be going to the same spot. Today’s post is another Guest Spot by Mr.Superfly. It’s a guys take on a Womans Monthly aka The Period.

Period Etiquette


Okay ladies so I understand that males are the lucky ones between the 2 genders. We don’t experience getting a period first hand but that does not mean we are not affected by them. I briefly wanna talk about period etiquette, this is a list of things that us men would appreciate you did when you know you are on/expecting your period

1. Warning

If you are meeting up with your homie, lover, friend and you just got or are expecting your period, it won’t hurt to give a brother the heads up. Not so we can cancel our original plans but just so we know what we are getting ourselves into. Some of you may be uncomfortable talking about this to a dude so if thats the case, just give us examples such as: “i have cramps” “I’m not feeling well” “i need some midol” most of us men can take a hint. Now if for some reason you forget to give us a warning…this leads me into the next item

2. Dont start no sh*t won’t be no sh*t

Ladies if you are on your period and you forget to warn a brother, please and I repeat please don’t start something that you can’t finish. The worst thing you can do is start kissing/touching/rubbing on dude and then when he gets into it and tries to start rubbing back…you push his hand away, WTF?!…I would’ve been just fine laying here watching t.v. but now I’m hard as a rock and your telling me theres nothing you can do about it? Ugh…blue balls is not an enjoyable experience!

3. Tone it down

Now I understand that you wanna look sexy and all but it’s probably not the best idea to wear your sexy outfit on a period day, thats just straight up mean, have a heart ladies…

4. Location, Location, Location


When your on your period its the best time to enjoy some quality outdoor activities, us going out for drinks then back to my house may not be the best idea…some more suitable period destinations should be something active so we don’t end up alone in a bed. for example bowling, movies, Dave and Busters..these are just some basic ideas but I’m sure y’all get the point.


Neeks point of view:

 Initially when I first read this I said “Wowww”. I wish sometimes that just for 1 month out of the year, males could experience a period and how absolutely dreadful it is. Especially for women like myself that get worse symptoms than the average female.  My grips in particular were with “Tone it Down” and “Location Location Location”. For someone like me both of those points are irrelevant. Even when you’re on your period and you have to go out somewhere dinner, club, gathering, movies, bowling, etc. You still want to look presentable and ‘hot’, so for me to dress bummy because of this stupid period -it’s not happening.

The next point “Location Location”, well for someone like myself… let’s just say either way that doesn’t matter.

On that note, I’m out!

Official Video: Grizzly Bears Panda

Remember last week I posted a trailer video to Wolf J Mcfarlane’s “Grizzly Bears Panda”?  Well here is the finished product and I’m impressed with the final result. If you’re not familiar with Wolf, he’s a very creative soul, not only is he an artist but also a Graphic Designer. Therefore his mind is always seeing things that the regular mind may not. This video demonstrates that- it’s simple yet extremely creative. This is his 1st video and a good start out the gate in my opinion. If you’ve never seen him perform, he’s a bit of a live wire so you’re always thoroughly entertained. Keep watch because 2010 he’s coming.

Check him out here—>  Official website and Twitter

POTD: Slow Dancing in a Burning Room

Randomly came across this girl on Youtube, and I’m glad I did. I’m really digging her voice, it’s real sweet and angelic. Her name is Lisa Scinta and here she is singing John Mayers “Slow Dancing in a Burning Room”. This song will NEVER EVER get old to me.

To Me, From Me

My Christmas Wish for myself

Bring me back!


I need another vacation, I deserve it. I’m going stir crazy here! #in2010 (holy Twitter fiend Lol) I’m making this happen, I have to!

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Ho Ho Ho

Good Morning Y’all! 

Merry Christmas !!!! 



What’s everyone’s plans for the day? I hope it’s food and fun with family/friends. I must make a small confession to you all: these last couple years I haven’t been much of a “Holiday Spirit” kind of person. Don’t get me wrong, I’m very aware that Jesus is the reason for the season but what turns me off is that most people don’t. This time of year has been tainted in the worst way in my opinion. Christmas used to be about family/friends and all that good stuff, however along the way it became this commercial mess like everything else. The holiday that was so family orientated morphed into this massive gift giving extravaganza. Nowadays it’s like you have to buy the most expensive looking thing in order to “show that you care”. That’s ridiculous to me. Ever since I was younger I was never the type to go around asking people for gifts on Christmas’ and Birthdays. Now that I’m older, it’s no different. If I want something I’m going to do my best to get it myself, if not then dah well. Call me stubborn but that’s just how I am and how I probably always will be. The cliché saying “it’s the thought that counts” really does mean something. When I say that though don’t get it twisted for a second, if you go to the store and you pick up the ugliest piece of thing and buy it because it’s on sale and you wouldn’t DARE be seen in it and you doubt that the person you’re buying it for will- that thought didn’t mean sh*t lol. For real though! When I’m shopping for someone, I consider the things that they like and really contemplate if they can use it and incorporate it into their wardrobe/life. If I wouldn’t want that as a gift, I’m not buying it for you just because I saw it on sale for $5.99.  Granted we all have different tastes, but if I know that’s NOT your tastes I’m not buying it just to say “I got you something”. I feel like that’s how a lot of people act in this day and age, it’s just not genuine. This Christmas as usual I’m not expecting anything, times are rough out there (trust me, I know). At my work we had a Kris Kringle (a gift exchange) with a maximum of $20 spent. For the person I chose, I got her a very nice scarf and a necklace ( yes, I do consider myself to be the ultimate shopper!).  The person that chose me got me the following : Gummi Bears, Hot Chocolate, Hand warmers, Brownies and Bacon <—- Yup you read right. See THAT is a gift that came from the heart because it’s literally a bit of everything that I love.  If you’re wondering, yes it was extra thick Bacon too. Yummy! 


Oh another Christmas gripe the Blackberry messenger (bbm) broadcast msgs and mass texts. I mean really?! People if you send me as well as all 113 people on your list a generic message and think I’m going to be touched by that, you can keep it. I’m not responding to any mass messages, you’re killing the whole vibe here. If I don’t see “Neeks or Aneka” anywhere in that message, I’m just pressing “End Chat”. I’m so serious.  



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Merry Christmas Tricks



Christmas Cheer

The beautiful multi-talented Melanie Fiona and Mr.Amazing, Brian McKnight teamed up to spread some Yuletide cheer.

Melanie Fiona with Brian McKnight on the keys “Someday at Christmas”

Qaadir does it again

WOW! I’ve posted funny videos from Qaadir before, I didn’t even finish this video and I knew it NEEDED to be posted.  I know a lot of you neeeeeeeeeeeed to watch this. He breaks it down with things I’ve been trying to tell you all.

If you’re homophobic in anyway, just don’t even bother (even though you can learn from it).

Qaadir “He’s Just Not That Into You”

Once again

Morning Y’all,

I will skip all the formalities right now and just say what I think needs to be said.

The ride that people are on is at an all time high. If you don’t want to speak to me, that’s your perogative. If you think I’m ugly, a b*tch, a bad dresser, bad photographer, not funny- again your issue not mine. The problem is I used to see you all, and now I don’t. So now that I don’t see you, you’re trying to fall into my eyesight. Not happening.

Keep it Moving

One more time for the cheap seats in the back.

Keep it Moving

If you want to act the fool for a week, month, year and then one day suddenly think by sending me an email I’m going to magically forget your previous indiscretions. You were mistaken, yet again. Come approach me and express your wrongdoing do not try to hide things under the rug and think I will just shrug it off and be chummy again. The New Year is steadily approaching, keep it up- way up. You can miss me with all of that in this coming year.

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JOTD: Tiger Woods Poem

I haven’t really touched the Tiger Woods jokes (even though a lot of been funny as hell). I received this in an email and liked it. People have a lot of time on their hands clearly.

Tiger Woods Holiday Poem

Twas the night of Thanksgiving and out of the house

Tiger Woods came a flyin’, chased by his spouse.

She wielded a nine iron and wasn’t too merry,

Cause a bimbo’s phone number was in his Blackberry.

He’d been cheatin’ on Elin, and the story progressed.

Woman after woman stepped up and confessed.

He’d been cheatin’ with Holly, and Jaimee, and Cori,

With Joselyn, and Kalika. The world had the story.

From the top of the Tour to the basement of blues,

Tiger’s sad sordid tale was all over the news.

With hostesses, waitresses, he had lots of sex,

When not in their pants, he was sendin’ them texts.

Despite all his cryin’ and beggin’ and pleadin’,

Tiger’s wife went investin’ — a new home in Sweden.

And I heard her exclaim from her white Escalade,

“If you’re gettin’ laid then I’m gettin’ paid.”

She’s not pouting, in fact, she is of jolly good cheer,

Her prenup made Christmas come early this year.

SOTD: I Can’t Go For That

This song is so big. This duo was big. Smooth voices, Great Music and Cool hair (back then).

Hall & Oates- I Can’t Go For That