This man, does wonders for me. Ever since I was introduced to him over a year ago, I’ve been hooked. Who am I talking about? Well it’s none other than J.Cole!  If you haven’t heard about him by now, I’m not sure what to say about you or your life. This man should be the next big artist to blow out of Hip-Hop, I’m really rooting for him. The lyrics and DELIVERY (I’m real big on delivery) not to mention he fine as hell (Yes, I’m still female lol). Rumor has it he will be performing at tomorrow nights BET Awards and I shall be watching 2 inches from my TV screen.

You know I don’t usually post “new videos” but I love him too much not to.

Here is his video:

Who Dat

POTD: Butterflies

This song makes me smile.

Marsha Ambrosious (Previously of Floetry) singing “Butterflies”. Yes, this is a Michael Jackson song however she wrote the song and her cover was always better to me.

1 Year Later.


We all remember what we were doing when Pandemonium broke out one year ago today. I was at home when I began to see bbm status updates “Pray for Michael Jackson”. My heart immediately started racing and thoughts of “what happened” began running through my head. That night was a bunch of confusion mixed with scare and prayer.  When the news finally were confirmed that the King of Pop aka Michael Gary Jackson had passed away, I was devastated. As I stated last year when I made my posts about him, you never expected him to be ‘Invincible’ however you expected him to be his ‘Bad’ self until at least his 80’s. The measure of a man should not be realized only in death but in life as well. Michael Jackson was and always will be the greatest of all TIME. Point blank period.

Before I go on and on, I’m going to finish off with a poem. This was written by my longtime friend Maria about Michael Jackson and she was gracious enough to send it to me to post on my blog. Thanks Maria!

Forever Missed, Never Forgotten

(When a tear drop falls in your name,

it is because you are missed)


The innocence of your beauty,

purifies the world’s heart.

Your rays of light reflect in our mirrors,

like a shining star.

Your existence overshadows

all negativity on earth,

like an illuminating light

that hovers over the moon

during a solar Eclipse.

Where there is darkness and loneliness,

we are cured with your endless love.

No shape, color or size,

can escape your overwhelming kindness.

The earth’s blue waters and green lands

shine brighter within the universe

from having your magical feet

and selfless hands touch down on them.

Your time spent on our planet

was too short for us to cope with,

but an infinity for what lives on in your name.

Life is short, but yours was a million lifetimes

in half a century.

Your being was larger than life,

louder than words,

faster than light,

and forever remembered.

This world is a better place

because you lived.

You are forever missed

and never forgotten.


♥ <R.I.P Michael Jackson> ♥


-Maria Iaccheo

SOTD: Wonderwall

There isn’t many words I can give to this song.

Brings me back to elementary days. I will forever LOVE this song!

Wonderwall- Oasis


I just hope that you miss me a little when I’m gone, I just hope that you miss me a little when I’m gone.



I have arrived 🙂  I never forgot y’all, trust! Life gets crazy sometimes, and I have to keep pushing through. Last time I spoke to you all, I can’t even remember what was happening but needless to say a lot has happened. I’d just like to shoutout those that hit me up wondering if my hands were broken or if I called it quits. Negative to both. I can’t let that happen again and with that, I guess I should mention that I got a promotion at my j-o-b. Yay me? It’s cool and all, it’s allowed me to do different things and what not but there is major responsibilities and pressure. The woman who was doing it before me, left a pretty big impact so it’s up to me to put the Datchickneeks spin on it as I always do. Sometimes in life you have to take a risk and just go for it. When the offer was presented to me, I was reluctant cause it was a big move however… I like taking risks. Change never hurt anybody, haaaaaaa major boost right there (Britney head shave anyone? I rest my case).  Besides that boring stuff, my personal life has been up and down but hey better material to blog with right?

Thanks for staying with me and much love to those that are actually reading this right now

Birthday Love: CPD

She won’t see this yet but…


I hope you’re having the time of your life right now in Freshyland. You deserve it, you work hard as hell. To those reading it, this woman does it ALL! She works a zillion jobs, can create something out of nothing, has a big heart, can make you laugh and bad you up all in one conversation LOL. This woman definitely has an ‘S’ tatted on her chest.

So thankful to have you in my corner.

Love you dearlyyyyyy, you slim waist curly haired sensation.

Not sure who took this pic lol

Mego, AsiaFiasco and Pradatrick