Dat…Chick…Neeks…

Good Morning,

Life is crazy sometimes, real crazy. Sometimes I feel like drowning and all I need is a lifevest. Again, I’ve successfully managed to mess up my health so dealing with that makes life that much more stressful. Well, that’s when God decides to send you a paddle to help see your way out. Yesterday, I had an amazing opportunity fall into my presence (as well as the Discombobulated Tricks). At first I thought it was too good to be true, but then upon rethinking it I realized why does it have to be too good to be true? Sometimes we get down on ourselves to the point that we discourage our own selves before anyone else can. Why is that? Is it to try to ‘protect’ our spirit before anyone else can damage it with their discouraging words? Is it to keep ourselves from getting excited only to be disappointed in the end? Lack of confidence? Hmmm, the possibilities are endless but either way….

Either way, I’m not having it.

I’m good at different things, so why don’t I act like it? Maybe, it’s because I don’t think I’m entitled to it. It’s interesting to me when I see rappers, singers, industry folk that brag about them being so amazing, when they’re really not. Do they know they’re not that great but put on this confident front to the world? Some do, I know that for a fact. Others don’t really know the truth and everyone is too afraid to tell them. There’s such a fine line between good confidence in knowing you have a little bit of talent in something and knowing to endure through it and then knowing when to give it a rest.

I digress.

Yesterday came to be from me just being me (didn’t mean to Dr.Seuss you lol). I have it, I know I do. Just have to use it a little more, because when I think about it I definitely know what to do with it *Drizzy voice*

Shoutout these ladies.

These girls are fly.

                                                   L-R : Shannon, Moi, Charlene, Chey, Danielle

Came across this pic and just felt like shouting these ladies out as they’re all doing their thing!

Shannon is doing her thing for The Broken Heel Diaries. Check out that site, I love it! It’s a really good site for women.

The girl next to Shannon in the green skirt, is some chick named Neeks. Yea, she aight.

Charlene aka Asia fiasco is 1/3 of The Discombobulated Tricks styling team. They do it all, the necklace that I’m wearing in this pic was designed by them.

The 2 Goddess looking females on the far right are Chey and Danielle who represent Liipstik Styling Team.

 

I’m all about supporting my own, and these are people that you need to look out for! Check them all out at their respective sites.

 

This is Who I Am…

“…Love me or hate me, I’m still an obsession” *cue the Lady Sovereign song*

 

Hello, my name is Aneka.

Most call me Neeks.

My alias is Datchickneeks.

I’m a Virgo. I say what’s on my mind, and don’t conform to being anyones “Yes man”. Don’t get me wrong, I don’t think without speaking because when I talk I make sure my words are calculated. I’m a good listener and will listen to your problems/concerns for as long as you need me to. Some cannot handle the fact that I show them things that other people won’t, but this is me. Sometimes people are afraid to get others upset or tell them the truth. I’m not too concerned. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not trying to hurt you but if I think you’re doing something that noone else will call you on I’m probably datchick to let you know. It’s a blessing and it’s a curse at the same time. I get it from both my grandmother and grandfather who are both Virgo’s. See a trend here? I’m loyal till I die, you ride for me and you already know I’m riding for you.

Why am I talking about this? Well it’s simple, at times I feel misunderstood like Common. As a person, I really do mean well. I feel that people don’t get that, they believe I’m trying to be a b*tch at all times. That’s so far from the truth it’s crazy. It may hurt when I say things at the time but once you sit there and think about what I said you may realize that there is some truth to it. My goal isn’t to hurt you or better yet piss you off, like you believe it’s just to open your eyes to another angle of reality. For these reasons here, it’s either you love me or you hate me. That’s how it seems to be, you can either respect my personality or think I’m a “hater” and dislike me. That’s something I’ve always had to deal with in my life. I don’t live my life trying to win a popularity contest, because people will only love that superficial aspect of you. You feed them what they want to hear so they rate you for it. What you see is what you get with Aneka. Take a little time to take in what I’m saying, or where I’m coming from. I only want the best for those around me, I mean I would expect the same from you.

Uhhhhhh…

Dreaming of sunny days…

Sandy beaches…

 A bahama mama or 3

 and 10 shots of Brugal! (No boost)

 

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That is all